from Silicon Valley to the City of Light: a California Expat in Paris

Batignolles

Walking in Batignolles – the last au revoir

one last stroll through Paris after lockdown

Walking in Batignolles is the final post of The Reluctant Parisian that was written in Paris. We moved back to California in November of 2020, right before the second Paris lockdown began. Some posts have been archived as I work on a memoir of the Paris years. You can now read and listen to my Paris stories at The Wandering Writer. Just go here to get my Paris stories in your inbox.

I do still post at the Reluctant Parisian occasionally about France-related books, French style, and other things still on my mind about living in the City of Light.


During our final week in Paris at the end of October 2020, I ventured out for one last walk to Batignolles. Although traffic had returned to the boulevards, the city still felt somewhat deserted. I had stirrings of affection for Paris I’d never felt before the pandemic. We’d all been in this together for such a long time. Now, when I saw the clerk at the Franprix or the machine-gun toting gendarmes along Avenue Gabriel, our “bonjours” held more warmth, our nods more familiarity.

On that quiet autumn Tuesday I set out from our home in the 8th arrondissement under a gray sky, walking the block and a half along Rue Rembrandt to Parc Monceau. The park had been my oasis in the center of the urban storm, green and vibrant in a city of browns and grays. On countless days, I had escaped our apartment and the book I didn’t feel like writing to walk through the park and order a crepe from the snack stand beside the carousel.

Parc Monceau crepe stand

That Tuesday I skipped the crepe, as I had one thing on my mind: coffee. I exited the park, veered right on Ave. Georges Berger, and crossed Malsherbes, where Berger becomes Rue Legendre. The light caught me at the corner of Legendre and Toqueville, in front of the old brick house on the corner (19 Rue Legendre), so out of place among the whitewashed buildings.

Parc Monceau

I crossed the busy Rue de Rome, where ugly modern apartment buildings tower over the train tracks. The first time we walked this route, the day after our arrival in Paris, we were searching for our nephew Jack’s favorite restaurant, Crepe Couer. We didn’t yet know that everything closes in Paris in August,  and the few things that don’t close for the entire month do close on Sunday.

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Michelle Richmond is the New York Times bestselling author of six novels and two story collections. Her books have been published in 31 languages.

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21 Comments

  1. Jan Osmon

    A lovely tribute – thank you!

  2. Michelle

    Thank you so much, Jan! I hope you are well. I get such a thrill seeing Barclay’s photos of the Gulf on instagram:)

  3. Beautifully written, with a steady and gentle voice.

  4. Michelle

    Thank you so much, Michele:)

  5. Bren

    I got here via pinterest (Seven things Parisian Women Really Wear) and thought, ‘this looks like an interesting blog’. So I clicked on ‘home’ and read your beautiful post about saying goodbye to Paris. Just my luck, to discover your French journey just as it is ending. As an American living in Belgium, I always enjoy reading other compatriots experiences of living abroad. I’ll be reading more, and wishing you good luck as you settle back in to your new life in California. Where you will, of course, be forever a little bit Parisian.

  6. Michelle

    Thank you so much for your kind note, Bren! I hope you are enjoying your time in Belgium. How long have you lived there?

  7. Such a lovely almost elegiac essay on leaving Paris. As one who has made Paris my permanent home, having married a French man, leaving Paris is something that I will never do so it was even more interesting to read your story about Paris being only one part of a life that will continue elsewhere. Mine stopped here! In any case, I fondly remember the evening we each spoke to the American Women’s Group about our books and then exchanged them. My novel just came out (Final Transgression) and I hope you will get a chance to read it and let me know what you think, and I look forward to reading your next book (I so understand what you wrote about making up elaborate reasons not to write!

  8. Michelle

    Hi Harriet. It’s so good to hear from you and know that you are doing well! Oh, and I’m so excited you have a new historical novel out set in France! Linking to it here for anyone reading this…

    “Elegant and often moving.”
    Alan Riding, author of And The Show Went On: Cultural Life in Nazi-Occupied Paris

    “An ultimate page turner.”
    William Dowell, former Time magazine correspondent and bureau chief

    Learn more: Final Transgression

  9. Martin Fernandez

    ” We were here last week. “. I can easily hear him saying that. Nice wrap up. Again, welcome home.

  10. Michelle

    Thank you, Marty! Good to be back. Hopefully we’ll be seeing you & Peggy this summer after we’re all vaccinated!

  11. Bren

    I’ve lived in Belgium for almost 30 years, so it is home for me. It’s different of course when you are married to someone from here, as I am. But I still enjoy reading about other Americans’ experiences in Europe, and hearing about what they found difficult or (eventually) grew to love. I hope you’ll have special memories to treasure from your time in Paris, and I’m sure it has expanded your knowledge of the world and of yourself. Wishing you a happy holiday season!

  12. Malena Ann Watrous

    I loved this, Michelle. I so often thought of you in the years you were in Paris, as we had been there and left not long before you. I would follow your news and feel a bit sad for how tumultuous the city was that you arrived to find. But this essay reassures me and I love what you wrote about how you moved wanting your life upended, and this never happens in the ways we expect. I’m glad for you that you are home, too, and I know you will find chances to wear those dresses.

  13. Michelle

    Thank you so much, Malena. “You arrived at a bad time” is what everyone kept telling us for the first year, Parisians and expats alike. One thing I haven’t written much about yet (but am contemplating) is what an incredible thing it was to be in Paris during the months of the total lockdown, when the city was so silent and empty. Sometimes I think it was worth living there just to experience it in that strange state of suspension. Hope to see you on the other side of the pandemic…I just keep thinking summer is when the world will resume.

  14. A beautiful, tender account, Michelle! So refreshing and inspiring. I love how, without being one iota sentimental, you evoke a wonderfully layered and complex emotional landscape, suffusing these neighborhoods of Paris. I wonder if you will bring this amazing place into future fiction!

  15. Maud Carol

    Au revoir Paris! Hi San Francisco! There is a freedom in moving and traveling light that I love– that period of time before all our possessions arrive and weigh us down again. You reminded me of that feeling. And I love your line about writing– how it might be one’s calling, but it doesn’t call all the time, and sometimes with the faintest voice. But what a gifted writer you are! I hope home feels like home, and that the world and your readers embrace you always.

  16. Tracy M Diziere

    Love you and this! Glad you are home safe and that you had this as one of your many adventures.

  17. Michelle

    I love and miss you, sweet friend! Seeing you and Frederic in Paris was one of the best days I had there! I hope you are well and we’ll see each other on the other side of the pandemic.

  18. Michelle

    So true, Maud! It has been nice living sparsely, with lots of white space in our home. Thank you so much for your kind words, from one writer to another.

    Yes, home feels like home! Happy New Year to you!

  19. Michelle

    Thank you so much, Harriet. That means the world to me. I do hope to write about Paris one of these days and am working on a novel set there! I hope these last months of quite have been good for your writing. I’m always excited to see what you do next.

  20. Karen Guzman

    Wonderful and honest tribute. Such a brave journey. Glad to have you back!

  21. Michelle

    Thanks so much Karen, glad to be back!

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